When did you last do something simply because it made you smile? On reconnecting with play, joy, and the parts of us that fade when life becomes all responsibility.
1 July 2026
When did you last do something simply because it made you smile?
Something that wasn't about achieving, improving, or being productive. Something that was just for you.
For many of us, life gradually becomes filled with responsibilities, expectations, and routines. We become very good at getting things done, supporting others, and meeting the demands placed upon us. We can lose touch with the things that make us feel energised, playful, and connected to ourselves, and it can begin to feel like something we need to earn. But fun is not a reward for finishing everything else. It is a valuable and essential part of being human.
Fun reminds us that we are more than our responsibilities.
It reconnects us with our natural curiosity and creativity. The parts of ourselves that enjoy trying new things, being playful, getting absorbed in something we love, or laughing without worrying whether it is "useful".
We can lose touch with these parts of ourselves as we grow older. We may become very focused on being capable, sensible, or meeting expectations, and the things that once brought us simple happiness can slowly fade into the background. But those joyful parts of us are still there.
Making space for enjoyment and play allows us to reconnect with ourselves. It gives our minds a break from constantly analysing, planning, and solving problems. Whether it is laughing with someone you love, dancing around the kitchen, getting creative, exploring somewhere new, listening to music, being outdoors, or doing something that feels a little silly. These moments matter!
There is something powerful about giving ourselves permission to enjoy the present moment. To nurture the parts of ourselves that are curious, imaginative, and full of life.
Counselling can be a space to explore what helps you feel connected, fulfilled, and more like yourself. It can help you notice what brings you joy, what may have got in the way of it, and how you might create more room for the things that matter.
A question to reflect on:
What is one thing you loved doing when you were younger that you might enjoy bringing back into your life now?
Your joy deserves a place too.
I'd be glad to hear from you — for a free, no-obligation conversation about how I can support you.
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